Don’t Have Enough Experience???

WARNING:

Today’s blog is a complaint !

(forewarning to those who don’t want negativity today because I honestly try to stay positive).

Time and time again I interview… (and yes my boss knows, he hired me with the intention of me bettering myself)…and I have one friend in particular, lets call her Penelope, that can completely relate to me. And I think she is one reason I continue to interview. Time and time again we interview and we are told how wonderful, great, what a good fit for “Job X” we would be BUT… and here it comes…

• we don’t have enough experience...or
• "Person Y" has so much MORE expereince... or
• you are overqualified for this job... or
• with your Masters Degree we feel we would have to pay you... or
• they say they are going to call you back and they DON'T!

... COME ON PEOPLE... be original come up with some other excuse... becuase that is what it is! Okay, maybe that is a little harsh but you too would be annoyed if you were in my shoes...

Would someone somewhere please explain to us how we will EVER get more experience if we are constantly rejected? I mean seriously, time passes, we continue to do similar things but not what we want to do with the rest of our lives… gaining experience doing SOMETHING and what are we told… Lets see … we both have Bachelors of Sciences… we both have Masters Degrees… and Penelope is even working on her PhD. (You go Girl!!) 7 years removed from attaining our Bachelors and we are getting the same responses!

We have contemplated at times omitting our Masters Degrees from our resume and replacing them with the objectives listed for our respective Masters Degrees as EXPERIENCE from said institutions, but that would be dishonest… and we would have to account for those years somehow.

There are those of you who read my blog and tell me that I should look for jobs in locations far from my current locale. To those of you nothing personal but...

• 1) I am SICK AND TIRED OF HEARING THAT (if that is your advice... please keep it to yourself)
• 2)I HAVE AND DO... I admit not as much as I have in the past but work with me here that IS NOT the ONLY answer the question either.

Penelope and I have had conversation after conversation and we just do not get it! Strong, Educated, Smart, Creative, Attractive, Young ladies who repeatedly get the short end of the deal. I tell myself time and time again that God has a plan for me and Penelope… and we just cannot see it yet. We have known for some time now it isn’t what we know, how good we are, what degrees we have but WHO we know! We obviously don’t know the right people! This is so VERY frustrating. How do we continue to inspire young people to do there best, get more education, when it doesn’t seem to get us… well me at least ANYWHERE. People want to abuse us and our talents! I am just so very FRUSTRATED! UGH… and that is my complaint for today! Any words of encouragement? Does anyone out there know the right people and would care to share?